
Elegante by Michelle J
Elegante by Michelle J is a London wedding planning service led by founder Michelle Jacobs.
Michelle Jacobs and Elegante by Michelle J
Elegante by Michelle J is a luxury wedding planning service based in London. Founder and lead planner Michelle Jacobs combines close attention to detail with a creative eye, and describes her approach to service as a hug, not a handshake.
The business specialises in destination weddings overseas and in UK wedding weekends. Michelle works with couples living in the UK and abroad, and draws on long experience and established industry contacts to design and deliver each celebration.
“A hug, not a handshake.”
Michelle Jacobs, Founder and Lead Planner
UK weddings with a destination element are a growing part of the work. Beyond planning and co-ordinating the day itself, Michelle helps to find a suitable venue for a wedding weekend and arranges travel, accommodation and the wider hospitality around it, so that guests have time together over the whole weekend.
Most couples choose the full planning, design and co-ordination service, and only a small number of weddings are taken each year so that each receives proper attention. Once the year's schedule is set, a limited number of places open for the On the Day PLUS service or a bespoke partial planning service, both of which follow the same warm, careful approach.
Michelle's weddings have been featured in You & Your Wedding, she has been a regional finalist at The Wedding Industry Awards, and she has spoken at industry events including Wed-x Italia.
From the first message to the day itself
- 01Initial consultation
Couples book a first consultation to talk through their plans and the level of support they need.
- 02Planning and design
Timelines, floor plans, style ideas and design details are developed, and the budget is set and managed.
- 03Suppliers and logistics
Vendor referrals and contract negotiation are handled, with hotel room blocks and transport co-ordinated, and all vendor meetings, site tours and tastings attended.
- 04The wedding day
The rehearsal is managed and the whole day is overseen by Michelle and her on the day team.
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Based in London, serving London
London
- Their base
- Venues nearby
Services and fees
Planning and design
- Full wedding planning, design and co-ordination
- On the Day PLUS
- Bespoke partial planning
- Timelines and floor plans
- Style ideas and design co-ordination
- Flower design
Suppliers and budget
- Vendor referrals and contract negotiation
- Budget guidance and management
- Vendor meetings, site tours and menu tastings
- Location scouting
Destination and weekend logistics
- Destination wedding planning
- UK wedding weekends
- Hotel room blocks and transport co-ordination
- Travel, accommodation and weekend hospitality
Fees on request
They quote for each wedding, from your date, guest numbers and plans.
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What kinds of weddings does Elegante by Michelle J plan?
Overseas destination weddings and UK wedding weekends, for couples based in the UK and elsewhere.
Which service do most couples choose?
Most choose the full planning, design and co-ordination service. On the Day PLUS and bespoke partial planning are offered in limited numbers once the year's schedule is set.
Why is the number of weddings limited?
Only a small number of weddings are accepted each year so that each couple receives the planner's full time and attention.
Can a UK wedding have a destination feel?
Yes. Michelle helps find a venue for a wedding weekend and plans the travel, accommodation and hospitality around it.
What does the planning service cover?
Timelines, floor plans, design details, vendor referrals and contracts, budget management, hotel and transport co-ordination, and oversight of the wedding day.
How does a couple start?
By booking an initial consultation with Michelle.

Is your date free with Elegante by Michelle J?
Your message goes straight to Michelle, with your date, guests and the kind of wedding you have in mind.
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