A couple embrace under a garden-rose arch at the end of their civil ceremony, rolling hills behind, Il Mio Matrimonio
Wedding planner · Rome, Italy

Il Mio Matrimonio

A wedding planning agency in Rome run by Valentina d'Amelio, who came to weddings from years of organising conferences, medical congresses and incentive trips.

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Valentina d'Amelio and Il Mio Matrimonio

Il Mio Matrimonio is a wedding planning agency based in Rome, with its office on Via Giacinta Pezzana. Valentina d'Amelio and Valeria Montoneri set it up after about ten years organising large events: conferences, meetings and incentive trips. Valentina, who was born in Rome, now leads it and works with a team of collaborators who follow each couple through planning and design.

Valentina trained in biology and, by her own account, spent twenty years in corporate events, medical conferences and congresses, work she began while still studying. Her approach is what she calls tailor made: the venue, the theme of the day and the smaller details are all chosen around the couple, drawing on a network of suppliers she has built up over the years. On the day she directs those suppliers so the couple do not have to.

“I love this job; I love the chance to customize every event down to the very last detail”

Valentina d'Amelio, My Wed in Italy

For couples from abroad the agency trades in English as My Wed in Italy. Its About page presents two planners, Valentina and Myriam Tedesco Genazzani, an event manager who trained in Rome, Milan and New York and earlier founded her own wedding business, La Rosa Bianca (Weddings & Luxury Events). My Wed in Italy handles venues, accommodation, flowers, cakes, photographers, music, transport and guest activities, and takes care of the civil and religious paperwork with consulates, churches and registry offices. It also plans elopements and vow renewals.

Rome is the base, and Valentina names Tuscany, Lake Como, Campania, Puglia and Sicily as regular destinations. My Wed in Italy adds the Amalfi Coast, the Italian lakes (Como, Maggiore, Garda and Orta), Costa Smeralda, Venice and the Dolomites. Published weddings include receptions at Castello di Tor Crescenza in Rome, a wedding in the Chianti countryside for an American couple, an Australian couple's wedding in Umbria, one in Florence and one on the Ligurian coast.

The agency was a winner at the Zankyou International Wedding Awards 2017 and carries a matrimonio.com Wedding Awards 2019 badge on its site. Alongside weddings it plans luxury parties and other private events.

At a glance
Based in
Rome
Destinations served
Rome, Tuscany, Umbria, Lake Como, Venice and the Veneto, Amalfi Coast, Puglia, Sicily
How they work

From the first message to the day itself

  1. 01Free consultation

    A free first conversation by Skype or phone to hear the couple's plans, wishes and budget.

  2. 02Proposal

    A customised plan and estimate built from that brief and sent by email.

  3. 03Venue and suppliers

    Venue scouting and visits, then the choice of caterer, florist, photographer, music and other suppliers, with negotiation kept inside the agreed budget.

  4. 04Planning

    Paperwork for the ceremony, appointments, guest lists, accommodation and transport, worked through with the couple during the months before the wedding.

  5. 05The wedding day

    Coordination of the whole day by the planner and assistants, with the suppliers directed on site.

Il Mio Matrimonio

Gallery

22 photographs
A couple embrace under a garden-rose arch at the end of their civil ceremony, rolling hills behind, Il Mio Matrimonio+22View Gallery Civil ceremony on a hillside lawn: the celebrant in her tricolour sash beneath a rose arch, the couple in white armchairs, petals on the grass, Il Mio Matrimonio

Images courtesy of Il Mio Matrimonio

Il Mio Matrimonio

Their weddings on film

2 films
Wedding at Santa Severa Castle
Arianna and Luca
Reviews

What couples say

5.0 1 review
Verified wedding

The much dreamed of marriage

It is difficult to find the right words to describe the most important day of your life ... The much dreamed of marriage ... a day full of emotions but also of great expectations because every woman as a child dreams of the perfect day. We thank you for having found Valentina, who helped us to make our dream come true with your precious advice. With your gentleness and your professionalism, you have been able to advise us step by step, but even more, you managed to surprise us by making our fairytale wedding even better than we could have ever imagined a unique and enchanting atmosphere that filled our eyes but also those of the guests full of joy. You managed to understand our desires perfectly, and that's why we can't help but thank you. All the Timori ... all the fears with you are gone. What can I say except thank you so much, Valeee !!!

Francesca De Persis2023-04-23
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Castello di Tor Crescenza

We will be forever grateful to Valentina and her team for the outstanding organization of our wedding and her amazing attention to details. All our guests, both foreigners and Italians, really complimented us on the wonderful arrangements and they still do every time they see us even if two years have gone by now. The flowers in the church, the beauty of the location “Il Castello di Tor Crescenza”, the quality of the catering, the music entertainment, the logistics for the guests’ transportation, the whole atmosphere, everything well exceeded our expectations! Grazie Valentina, hai svolto un lavoro ECCELLENTE e ci hai aiutato a rendere un giorno cosi importante veramente indimenticabile! Con grande stima e affetto, Roberta e Santi Monzon

Roberta e Santi MonzonIl Mio Matrimonio website
Testimonial, not ratedVerified wedding

An intimate family wedding in Italy

As a child, I never dreamt of a big wedding. Instead, I dreamt of an intimate affair shared by family in Italy. Valentina made this dream come true. I am confident in saying it would not have happened without her assistance and support. Valentina came highly recommended to us and it was as if an angel fell into our lap. Her professionalism, attention to detail, resourcefulness and responsiveness were invaluable. It was obvious Valentina puts her heart into her planning. It was a flawless day thanks to her! Since we travelled from the states to Italy with family, Valentina went above and beyond to assist with things outside the wedding to make the whole trip one to remember. She assisted us in ensuring our civil ceremony was legalized and took care to make all arrangements even taking us to the US Embassy. Valentina thought of every detail and helped to negotiate prices to stay within our budget. She was indispensable and someone I would not hesitate recommending.

Roberta BergamoIl Mio Matrimonio website
Where they plan

Based in Rome, serving Rome, Tuscany, Umbria

Via Giacinta Pezzana 79 (ground floor), 00197 Rome, Italy

  • Their base
  • Venues nearby
What they do

Services and fees

Planning and design

  • Full wedding planning and design
  • Choice of ceremony and reception venues (villas, farmhouses, castles, restaurants, hotels)
  • Menu and wedding cake
  • Flowers and set-up
  • Music for the ceremony and reception
  • Favours and wedding list

Partial services

  • Venue scouting
  • Day-of coordination
  • Hourly consultation

Paperwork and logistics

  • Civil and religious paperwork with consulates, churches and registry offices
  • Accommodation, from hotels and castles to villas and B&Bs
  • Transport for the couple and guests
  • Hair and make-up, photography and video suppliers

Guests

  • Guest management
  • Guest activities such as cooking classes, wine tastings, guided and boat tours
  • Honeymoon planning

Other celebrations

  • Elopements
  • Vow renewals
  • Luxury parties and private events
Fees
Full wedding planning and designEach proposal is built to the couple's brief
On request
Partial services (venue scouting, day-of coordination, hourly consultation)Listed as separate services on the Il Mio Matrimonio site
On request
First consultation
Free
Ask for a proposal
Questions couples ask

Before you write to them

How much does Il Mio Matrimonio charge?

It does not publish its fees. The first consultation is free, and each couple receives a customised plan and estimate based on what they want.

Where in Italy do they work?

From Rome, across Italy. Valentina d'Amelio works in Tuscany, Lake Como, Campania, Puglia and Sicily, and also on the Amalfi Coast, Lakes Maggiore, Garda and Orta, Costa Smeralda, Venice and the Dolomites.

Do they work with couples from abroad?

Yes. My Wed in Italy is the agency's English-language service for international couples, and its published weddings include couples from the United States, Singapore and Australia.

What languages do they speak?

They do not publish a list. The Il Mio Matrimonio site is in Italian and the My Wed in Italy site is in English.

Who will plan our wedding?

Valentina d'Amelio leads the agency with a team of collaborators. On My Wed in Italy she works alongside Myriam Tedesco Genazzani.

Can they handle the legal paperwork?

Yes. They advise on the documents needed for the marriage to be recognised in Italy and at home, and deal with consulates, churches and registry offices on the couple's behalf.

Do they offer anything short of full planning?

Yes. Partial services include venue scouting, day-of coordination and hourly consultation, and they also plan elopements and vow renewals.

Check your date

Is your date free with Il Mio Matrimonio?

Your message goes straight to Valentina, with your date, guests and the kind of wedding you have in mind.

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Call +39338449 22 27Official website

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